Comments on: 31 Days of Denials; or How One Tiny Word Helped Me Recover 3 1/2 Hours Per Day. http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/ Goal Setting and Productivity for People Who Like Technology Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:39:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Making Life Work for You http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26763 Making Life Work for You Tue, 05 Feb 2008 11:06:24 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26763 <strong>Turn Around Tuesday...</strong> “I feel it’s a tragedy, at least personally, when one spends all their time working toward the goal achievement of others while ignoring one’s own personal goals.” -   Brad Isaac, Achieve-IT! I would say, under oath, that I know... Turn Around Tuesday…

“I feel it’s a tragedy, at least personally, when one spends all their time working toward the goal achievement of others while ignoring one’s own personal goals.” –   Brad Isaac, Achieve-IT!
I would say, under oath, that I know…

]]> By: Strip Away Time Wasting Requests! » Achieve IT! - Goal Setting Blog http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26735 Strip Away Time Wasting Requests! » Achieve IT! - Goal Setting Blog Sat, 02 Feb 2008 15:50:15 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26735 [...] We’ve covered why the NO word is critical to your success. [...] [...] We’ve covered why the NO word is critical to your success. [...]

]]> By: Rhei, writer Surefirewealth.com http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26732 Rhei, writer Surefirewealth.com Fri, 01 Feb 2008 10:42:22 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26732 I felt sorry for you Levente and for me too! We're on the same boat- I said NO to my boyfriend and he got someone else to ask. I considered that as a big mistake, but that NO made a better and stronger lady. Thanks to that two letter word!:) I felt sorry for you Levente and for me too! We’re on the same boat- I said NO to my boyfriend and he got someone else to ask. I considered that as a big mistake, but that NO made a better and stronger lady. Thanks to that two letter word!:)

]]> By: Brad Isaac http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26726 Brad Isaac Thu, 31 Jan 2008 15:59:44 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26726 <i> editors note, the email address of this person starts with the word "Heckler@"</i> That's pretty funny Levente, but you raise a good question. What <b>should</b> be the outcome when a friend or lover cannot accept the word "no"? editors note, the email address of this person starts with the word “Heckler@”

That’s pretty funny Levente, but you raise a good question. What should be the outcome when a friend or lover cannot accept the word “no”?

]]> By: Levente http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26724 Levente Thu, 31 Jan 2008 13:12:52 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26724 I said no to my girlfriend... I have never had too much problem about it with her, only with business clients. The problem is that she "found someone else to ask". :'( So much for productivity (and will to live, for that matter). I said no to my girlfriend… I have never had too much problem about it with her, only with business clients.

The problem is that she “found someone else to ask”. :’(

So much for productivity (and will to live, for that matter).

]]> By: Seven Days of Inspiration: Week Ending 1/27/2008 | The Inspired Solo http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26713 Seven Days of Inspiration: Week Ending 1/27/2008 | The Inspired Solo Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:17:54 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26713 [...] Achieve IT! shows us the power of a 2-letter word - NO. [...] [...] Achieve IT! shows us the power of a 2-letter word – NO. [...]

]]> By: Melanie http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26711 Melanie Wed, 30 Jan 2008 13:34:54 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26711 Brad, it seems that this little word is what I need to use more often, too. Some "no practice". What made it so clear is: "Turns out, if you say no, the one asking you will just go find someone else to ask." At first, this may hurt our egos, but adult as we are, we should know how to handle it. Thank you for sharing this story. Exactly what I needed today. Brad, it seems that this little word is what I need to use more often, too. Some “no practice”. What made it so clear is: “Turns out, if you say no, the one asking you will just go find someone else to ask.” At first, this may hurt our egos, but adult as we are, we should know how to handle it.

Thank you for sharing this story. Exactly what I needed today.

]]> By: Brad Isaac http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26709 Brad Isaac Wed, 30 Jan 2008 13:19:32 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26709 @Benjamin, Jim is great. He's my favorite. :) @Benjamin, Jim is great. He’s my favorite. :)

]]> By: Brad Isaac http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26708 Brad Isaac Wed, 30 Jan 2008 13:18:30 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26708 "I think I would lose my job if I said NO for 31 days but its definitely something to take note of." oops! I didn't mean for my experiment to come across as advice. It was my story. Although if someone has a needy friend or relative, they might want to give it a try. In work, I think it's important to say "No" or "Not now" when there are more important things to do. For instance, if you are working to close a deal that would boost company earnings by 30% and the boss asks you to sharpen a case of pencils. Saying No would be a favor to you both. “I think I would lose my job if I said NO for 31 days but its definitely something to take note of.”

oops! I didn’t mean for my experiment to come across as advice. It was my story. Although if someone has a needy friend or relative, they might want to give it a try.

In work, I think it’s important to say “No” or “Not now” when there are more important things to do. For instance, if you are working to close a deal that would boost company earnings by 30% and the boss asks you to sharpen a case of pencils. Saying No would be a favor to you both.

]]> By: Benjamin Bach http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/comment-page-1/#comment-26706 Benjamin Bach Wed, 30 Jan 2008 10:40:45 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/01/31-days-of-denials-or-how-one-tiny-word-helped-me-recover-3-12-hours-per-day/#comment-26706 Great stuff Brad I love the quote from Mr Rohn Great stuff Brad
I love the quote from Mr Rohn

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