Comments on: The Joy of NOT Solving Problems… http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/06/the-joy-of-not-solving-problems/ Goal Setting and Productivity for People Who Like Technology Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:34:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: 4cused http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/06/the-joy-of-not-solving-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-29202 4cused Wed, 11 Jun 2008 01:59:43 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/06/the-joy-of-not-solving-problems/#comment-29202 From my own experience, until someone realizes that they are being helped, it is difficult to get them to change. It is easier when they understand why you are there in the first place. When they do, then both of you will be on the same platform and in that position you will be operating in the same wavelength. Like playing a irresistibly sonorous flute tune to a deaf crowd, it is useless trying to solve problems when those affected do not even realize why you are there in the first place. Fred. 4cuseds last blog post..<a href="http://qoutesxplained.wordpress.com/2008/06/06/effort/" rel="nofollow">Effort</a> From my own experience, until someone realizes that they are being helped, it is difficult to get them to change. It is easier when they understand why you are there in the first place. When they do, then both of you will be on the same platform and in that position you will be operating in the same wavelength.

Like playing a irresistibly sonorous flute tune to a deaf crowd, it is useless trying to solve problems when those affected do not even realize why you are there in the first place.

Fred.

4cuseds last blog post..Effort

]]> By: B. Riley http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/06/the-joy-of-not-solving-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-29121 B. Riley Sun, 08 Jun 2008 15:57:04 +0000 http://www.persistenceunlimited.com/2008/06/the-joy-of-not-solving-problems/#comment-29121 Right on Brad. There is almost nothing LESS rewarding and MORE frustrating than trying to help people who don't want to be helped. These people are parasites, and they'll plea for help and take up a lot of your time and emotional energy. Eventually you have to make the decision to stop. It's happened to me plenty of times. Right on Brad. There is almost nothing LESS rewarding and MORE frustrating than trying to help people who don’t want to be helped. These people are parasites, and they’ll plea for help and take up a lot of your time and emotional energy. Eventually you have to make the decision to stop. It’s happened to me plenty of times.

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